From the desk of Amhar Maulana Arifin,
Subject : it is a good idea to get married young
Nowadays, early marriage has become taboo in our culture. Getting married at a young age of 17 until 21 will get you some strange comments from others. There are many comments from people that those who get married at young age means they have do zina. However, I think we need a revival of early marriage among us. I think there are several reasons young people need to begin adopting this counter cultural practice by marrying early.
Refrain from sin & Sexual Immortality
Relationship become lawful by marriage. Unlike the people who are still dating . you are freely to make strong relationship and fulfill your needs (love & lust) without worry.
In this overly sexualized culture. There are many bad distractions from nude scenes in movies, risky television shows, and erotic novels, young people are being bombarded with one message: Sex. However, if people place the expectation on young people to wait till their late twenties and early thirties for marriage, we are placing on them a weight that will cripple them. Young people seeking to be obedient to abstain from sexual relations outside of marriage will collapse under the weight of their optimal sex drive and the influence of an obsessively sexualized culture.
It is unreasonable, foolish, and harmful to place this weight on young people. Sex is a good gift given to us by God, meant for our enjoyment in the way God has designed. Rather than encouraging young people to delay marriage and a sexual relationship with their spouse, we should encourage them to marry. This way they can enjoy God’s gift of sex in a way that protects them from sexual immorality and glorifies and honors God.
Marriage forces people to be more mature
It is not a strange sighting today to see 25 or 26-year-old men living at home with mom and dad, smoking, and playing playstation all day. The recently created teenager/adolescent culture seems to be a growing age group. Adolescence is no longer just during the teen years but continues into the 20s and early 30s. young generation today is a generation characterized by a lack of initiative failing to take responsibility for their own lives.
Marriage is God’s gracious gift of forcing a man and a woman to grow up, particularly men. When a man gets married he becomes responsible for providing for his family, making sure the bills are paid, and protecting his wife. He must not only take responsibility for himself but for his wife and future children. Marriage pushes young men out of the nest to spread their wings and fly under the windy pressures of life. This is a good thing, but unfortunately rather than pushing these guys towards manhood we allow them to continue in a lengthy boyhood. This is a shame.
By getting married early, our life more focus, our brain full of passion and determination for making the goals come true.
There is a nearest way for success : EARLY MARRIAGE
Have a life partner for sharing & better lifestyle.
At an early age, someone really needs a partner. But the husband / wife is the best partner to share everything. All case can be done and solved well.
By getting married early, we get someone who control. at an early age , anyone is more easily tempted by things that may harm his soul and body. So, to prevent out of control, we need a lawful life partner, husband or wife.
So Don’t Make Early Marriage Taboo…
Amhard Insight 